Overview:

This idiomatic expression, with a rich historical usage dating back to 1597, when Shakespeare used ‘Tom, Dick, and Harry’ or ‘Tom, Dick, and Francis’ to refer to everyday people, has a fascinating evolution.  Initially, the phrase included “Francis” as a common name, but by the 20th century, it was solidified as “Harry’s ‘replacement for ‘Francis.”

There are various references for the commoner, including ‘ordinary,’ ‘average,’ ‘lacking distinction,’ ‘everyman,’ ‘anybody,’ ‘just another average Joe,’ and ‘John Doe.’ These terms, while seemingly ordinary, reflect a shared human experience.

It’s a bit disheartening that none of these references, from ‘ordinary’ to ‘average Joe’ to ‘John Doe,’ truly celebrate the uniqueness and specialness of individuals.

Just imagine the look on your friend’s face when you playfully refer to them as just another ‘Tom, Dick, and Harry.’ It’s a lighthearted way to pull an emotional prank, guaranteed to bring a smile to their face and a chuckle to yours.

If your friend is secure in his position in life, he will likely laugh it off, appreciating the lighthearted humor.  This is an excellent opportunity to share a moment and buy him a beer at the local tavern, further strengthening your bond.

Humor goes a long way to sustain lasting relationships.